Hair


I watched a woman shave her head for charity this morning. Great job. Even more interesting were the comments from other women onlookers.
Why are some people so attached to their hair? I mean, sure, they’re attached at the follicles. But why does it really matter? Why do we need to look the way we do (or the way we wish to)? Are people so lacking in self confidence about their place in the world that even such trivial things can be that important? Or is it that people are so concerned about how other people look that it is just overwhelming to be the one that doesn’t look right.
But then, there are people who buck the trend, surely with all of this at least subconsciously in mind. Some of them seem to be almost willing you to look at them askance. They revel in being different. Is that just another form of insecurity though?

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The other side is not greener


Maybe it’s easier to like someone else’s life, and live vicariously through it, than take some responsiblity to change our lives into lives we might like.
— Tish Grier, love and hope and sex and dreams, 04-12-2006

It constantly amazes me how bad the lives of so many celebrities are. It must be hard to bear the burden of so many other people’s vicarious living. Living out a perception of reality that is constructed for you, or which you construct for perhaps the wrong reasons does take its toll on your soul.

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